a lesson.

using office time to blog.. lol. shall update some photos tonight if i do have the time..

anyways, my weekend taught me one valuable lesson. maybe not taught, it kinda reminded me.

happiness is self perception.

if a man enjoys cleaning toilets as a job, even if he has a better job offer and a better pay, he will still remain cleaning toilets. even if everyone else looks down on him, he will still remain cleaning toilets. and if he is happy, i figure out, u should be happy for him too.

an email i recently read said that a person's day is only affected by his/her own actions which will bear different consequences depending on it. heres an example.

letsay, u wake up late because you slept too late last night. u rush everything and as a result everyone who comes in your way irritates you, you scold your younger brother for leaving his books on the floor, you tell your mom she should have woken you up.. your younger brother gets pissed and cannot concentrate on his exam, he fails and comes home miserable. your mom tells you to have some manners and you refuse to acknowledge her presence which results in a big argument.

okay. there are 2 things u can change.

1) you could have slept earlier last night.
2) you could have just go in late for work and accept the consequence, you were going to be late anyway.

and in this 2 scenarios, everything would change. and that leaves a 'what if'. and if people think about the 'what if's too much, they'd live an unhappy life. so to me, do not think 'what if', think 'if not', always look for a positive side.

is your glass half-full?

-RomE